THE CHALLENGE
Loving someone doesn't always mean understanding how they experience the world.
When one or both partners are neurodivergent — whether that's ADHD, autism, or another way of processing the world — things that seem simple for other couples can feel harder to line up: how you communicate, what your senses can tolerate, how you show what you're feeling.
You may love each other deeply and still find yourselves having the same argument on repeat, missing each other's cues, or thinking, "Why is this so hard when we love each other this much?"
That mismatch isn't a flaw in either of you, or in the relationship itself. It's a chance to actually understand how each of you experiences the world — and to build ways of communicating and connecting that work for the two of you, not for some average couple neither of you is.
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MY APPROACH
A relationship where both partners feel heard.
I work with couples navigating neurodivergent relationship dynamics with curiosity and respect for the way each of you experiences the world. Together, we'll look at how you each move through communication, conflict, and connection — and build tools that fit your relationship, not some outside idea of what a relationship "should" look like.
Psychoeducation is a big part of this work. When you understand how neurodivergence can shape the way someone communicates, regulates emotion, or takes in the world through their senses, it gets easier to have compassion — for yourself, and for each other.
This isn't about fixing anyone. It's about building a relationship where you both feel seen and safe, where your differences aren't just tolerated but genuinely understood.
Therapy That Fits Into Your Life
Virtual therapy means you get to show up from a space that already feels comfortable and supported. Curl up under your favorite blanket on your own sofa. Let your pet snuggle up next to you — we love emotional support animals here. Whatever helps you feel at ease, bring it.
There's no commute, no waiting room, no unfamiliar office to walk into. As long as you've got a reliable connection, you can join from home, from work, or from whatever private corner works best for you that day.
And when life gets busy or keeping track of appointments is hard, virtual sessions make it easier to stay connected. With your permission, I can send a text reminder, and if something comes up, you may still be able to join from wherever you are — instead of missing the whole session or rearranging your day around it.
Therapy should work with your life, not become another obstacle.
WHAT TO EXPECT
How We'll Work Together
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A judgment-free space where both partners can be themselves
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Practical communication tools that fit how you each process the world
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Psychoeducation and emotional regulation support, so you can understand neurodivergence and each other more clearly
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A collaborative pace that moves at your relationship's speed, not a script's
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Ongoing support as you build new patterns together